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Case Study: Mediation
Background
Michelle and Angela are work colleagues in the support team of a large department in a local government department. Angela has been on maternity leave and the department was reorganised while she was away.
Angela has now returned to work to find that, due to the reorganisation, Michelle has been given other duties including producing management reports and statistics. Michelle is now asking Angela for information and advice on how to produce reports and stats (which was previously within Angela’s remit) and appears to be ‘supervising’ her. Both Angela and Michelle used to be very good friends.
Angela’s Position
Angela is clearly upset and distressed. She has not been informed of the changes and feels that her relationship with Michelle has been badly damaged. She has lost trust in her friend and feels that Michelle has gone behind her back while she was away.
Michelle’s Position
Michelle assumes that Angela knows more about the changes to the reorganisation than she does. She thinks Angela has started being obstructive when she asks her for things and believes that Angela is jealous of her new ‘role’, which is why she does not seem to acknowledge the changes. Their relationship is steadily deteriorating and finally they have a huge argument over a double room booking.
Mediation
Michelle writes a letter to the HR department stating that she has a grievance with her colleague, Angela, believing that she is being victimised as a result of taking maternity leave. The HR officer responds by offering mediation as a means of resolving the dispute. The HR officer assured Angela about confidentiality and chatted about what mediation can do. Angela looked up further information about the service and guidelines on what to expect in a mediation session from the Working Mediation website.
Michelle decided to give mediation a try and arranged an appointment. Angela was contacted by the HR department to inform her of what had happened and the idea of mediation was introduced. A mediator from Working Mediation then contacted both parties to arrange the mediation.
Angela and Michelle had confidential one-to-one sessions with the mediator. During the individual sessions the mediator saw that the following interests were common to both parties:
They both wanted to:
Joint Mediation
The mediator explained the ground rules to Michelle and Angela for the joint session, which included reaffirming that they would be get:
During the joint session Michelle and Angela had an equal opportunity to explain their concerns and to raise issues they felt were causing them anxiety. The meeting was quite intense at first but with the mediator’s direction both Michelle and Angela began to relax and openly discuss their difficulties, making suggestions on how they could work together in the future.
A written record of what was suggested was produced.
Post Script
Both Angela and Michelle realised from the mediation meeting that there had been misunderstandings between them and that their communication had broken down. The written agreement contained things like agreeing to meet up for lunch occasionally where they would openly discuss feelings and any issues that concerned them, as well as more practical work-based solutions, such as clarifying who held responsibility for producing certain reports, and when they could meet in an official capacity to ‘share’ information. Agreeing to these steps would ensure a good future working relationship.
Over the next few weeks they began to rebuild their trust in each other, with the aim of moving their working relationship and friendship onto a normal footing.